The appearance of a person: what you need to know everyone. Sloppy and untidy appearance

In general, you can easily wander to the house on the weekend or walk with friends. But if you have an important business meeting, entering the light or the first date with a man's dream, be sure to check your image on the absence of these 10 markers of slurry!

Hand gum on hand

This is not a bracelet and not a clock, it is an elastic band for hair, and the only visible place where she should be, is your head. Of course, it is convenient - always keep it with you on your wrist, but only imagine how unpleasant you will see the black elastic lace in my hand in your hand in the wedding photo album of your best friend.

Two volumetric bags together (and one of them is a canvas track)

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Cleary bags-Avoski are designed not for everyday socks as an "extra" bag, but rather for hiking to the store and other similar home affairs. If you wear such a bag every day, you will inevitably look insufficient, and some stylists are confident that you become a constant wearing of this "stupid" you become similar to the homeless, which all worns with you. Think, whether all things are needed from the second bag? Surride everything you wear with you, and you will surely come to the conclusion that there is a whole bunch of unnecessary junk in the oscillation.

Hairstyle in the style "either a bundle, or the tail"

Some of them collected into something average between a beam and tail Hair is capable of handling any, even the most thoughtful and stylish image. Therefore, if you have a meeting with someone important to you, spend a couple of seconds to modify this misunderstanding in a regular horse tail.

Lingerie peeking out underwear

Strapping bra brain looking out from under the bough of mini skirts pulling panties - if your lingerie constantly reminds others about his presence, then they may have an impression about you like a spike, which is too lazy to just look at yourself in the mirror before leaving the house .

Permanent attempts to correct clothes

Permanent wretch and pulling clothes annoying not only you, but also your environment - people have a feeling that you are not able to choose comfortable clothes. If you can't calmly wear some thing, it is better not to wear it outside the house.

Your pet's wool on clothes

If you think it is unnoticed, you're deeply mistaken - as a result of this underwrite, you become the most "strong independent woman" from a joke about forty cats. As you understand, your potential boyfriend is not at all attracting.

Too long pants that are dragging on the ground

Oh, how cool looks on the stars passed jeans and wide pants in the floor! Only here the beauty of this is largely due to the fact that the famous fashionists wear such pants with heels, not giving the pants to drag on the ground. Of course, you are unlikely to wear your adhesive jeans with the same pair of ankleon, the height of the heel is ideal for not collecting all the dirt from the city streets. The exit here are two: either to shorten the shoe pants with a flat sole (but what about heels?), Or go to narrower and short models.

Your blouse is constantly knocked out of jeans and skirts.

Blouse, constantly half testing because of the belt of a trouser or skirt, looks inactious, and try to cast it back in a public place is hardly decent. If you like the perfectly fastened blouse, pay attention to the Body blouses.

Your shoelaces are always in disarray.

In fact, it is probably the shortest point of our list, but in conjunction with something else he can additionally aggravate the degree of disadvantage of images, so the laces look like on your shoes - it is better that they are tied And equally.

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There is a large temptation after ironing so and leave the board of the unfolded - suddenly there is some other turntable clothing that will need to be put in order. The same applies to the dryer for linen: sometimes it is too lazy to immediately spread things, and it costs it, opened and filled. It is convenient, but it looks sloppy.

What to do

If you do not have a special room for washing, drying and ironing, the board and the dryer after use is better to immediately fold and remove from the eye. For example, for the closet or in the storage room.

2. Animal spoiled furniture

Cats, if you do not teach them to the clawholder, will scratch the upholstery on sofas and chairs. Dogs and rabbits can easily spray anything or break. After their claws and teeth, you can still use furniture, but it looks no longer.

What to do

Some elements of the interior - for example, curtains in fasteners from feline claws - it will be best to replace. But it's not necessary to throw a sofa. Try to restore furniture yourself.

If the textile upholstery is damaged and there are no large ruptures on it, you will need scissors, seed and transparent glue. Carefully compatheet the outstretched filler, after which it is to fill it with the remnants of the sewn lubricated glue. More The process is shown in the video:

In the case when the upholstery is torn and hangs by flocks, it will have to be carefully sewn first. Or contact a specialist.
If you want to be pouted with tweezers, liquid skin under the color of your sofa or armchair, tassel and sponge. First, carefully remove the outstanding filler with tweezers. Then dip the brush in the liquid skin and apply the substance for all holes and scratches. Come on the surface with a sponge to distribute liquid skin evenly. Repeat several times until all damage will be invisible.

3. Economic supplies

Brushes, sweaters, mops, sponges and rags are very convenient to keep in sight: We use them several times a day, and every time you do not want to climb into the closet or storage room. But put up for everyone to review, they create the illusion of mess even in a purely cleaned house.

What to do

Select special place for household accessories - affordable and convenient. For example, a separate narrow locker in the kitchen, where all the brushes, shoulder, rags and cleaning agents will be hidden. So that the mops do not fall out from it, they can be fixed on the door from the inside. If there are small children in the house, such a closet should be closed on the lock.

4. Plaids on furniture

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Many are afraid that the upholstery of the furniture will argue, wipes or stains and to protect it, pounce on top of the plaid. On beautiful interior photos, it looks good. But in reality covered all the time wrinkles and slides, and it looks inaccurate.

What to do

If you are worried about your sofas and armchairs, buy or order a special removable case. It can be wrapped, and it looks neat.

5. Sports inventory

Putting to the wall rugs for yoga standing in the middle of the simulators folded in the corner of the dumbbells - as a rule, it all looks alien and it seems that it is not removed in the room, even if it really is not.

What to do

For sports accessories - at least for some - it is better to highlight a special place. The rug can be removed into the main compartment of the cabinet with clothing, and the dumbbells put on the bottom shelf.

6. Wires

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Cable hanging cables, dusting under the table beams of wires, stretched by the floor extension cords interfere with walking, move the furniture and make cleaning. And they are constantly confused and spoil the appearance of the room. In addition, dust and small trash are stuck in these clubs of wires.

What to do

The best thing to be done is still at the stage of repair, estimate where the outlets are needed, and withdraw them in all strategic places. But if you live in, bought secondary housing or simply did not provide for everything from the very beginning, the output still is.

Long wires that do not get rid of no way (for example, an Internet cable) can be hidden in the box, fasten under the ceiling or under the plinth.
The electrician can output additional outlets and save you from extension cords.
The rest of the wires - from the laptop, printer and other household appliances - can be arranged using holders, screeds and lipukes.

Here are some more creative ideas, how to doubt the wires and cables:

7. Grooves in the chest, bedside tables and chairs

Horizontal surfaces are attracting books, handles and notepads, keys, jars with cosmetics, children's toys, cups and other items. These grooves grow every day, covered with dust, make the room is untidy.

The same applies to the clothing chairs abandoned on the back. Yes, after work, it is terrible too lazy to put every thing on your place and I just want to hang it on the first thing. But if you do not remove immediately, then it will be even more difficult to do it. And the next day, temptation again throw things on a chair or a sofa will increase. And as a result, the furniture will be buried under several layers of clothing.

What to do

Marla Silly, the creator of the reference system of the Flyliment, such foci of disorder "hot dots", or "hotspots". And advises to "stew" them - that is, to remove all things in places - several times a day, spending 5 minutes for it.

8. Open shelves

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There is nothing terrible in them. Beautifully placed on the shelves of books, photos or souvenirs make the interior alive and cozy. But if you give up things like hit, you forget to wipe the dust and do not know the measure, the picture is depressed.

What to do

Maintain order on the shelves: set the books, rub the dust regularly and remove the items that should lie in other places.

9. Baskets and boxes for small things

It is likely that you also have such. It can be a basket, a vase or a small box. It is usually put on, on the shelf in the hallway or some more prominent place - to fold different things. And as a result, there are checks and notes, coins and beads, torn off buttons and broken from children's cars of the wheels. All this lies the dead cargo, collects dust and scary annoying.

What to do

Start a pretty piggy bank for coins, important notes and checks immediately take pictures on the phone and throw out, and from broken things and other unnecessary trash, get rid of without regrets.

10. Shoes in the hallway

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In Russia, the weather is such a naughty and unpredictable that in one week it is often necessary to change the sneakers, autumn boots and winter boots.

As a result, shoes and sandals are not placed on a shoe regiment, stand as they fell, confused under their feet and look very inaccurately. And if the family is large, a real shoe catastrophe can happen in the hallway.

What to do

Try to immediately wipe the shoes and remove it into place. Buy for this a spacious wardrobe or a comfortable stave for shoes.

11. Rag in front of the door

It is usually a stealth on top of the rug to wipe the legs and do not put the dirt in the apartment. But it is dumping, comes and spoils the overall impression from the hallway. Especially if you use an old towel or ripped T-shirt as a rag.

What to do

Instead of a cloth, you can lay the absorbent rug on a rubber-based basis - and do not forget to regularly vacuum and wash it.

Often we pay attention to the untidy appearance of a person. Most people who follow their appearance - avoid communicating with untidy people. If you avoid such contacts, it is not possible, that is, 2 main options for developing events. The first - we think about yourself something like: "Oh no, do something with your appearance - you look awful!". The second option, when we honestly tell a person that he would have to pay attention to his appearance. But the fact is that the systematic uncertainty is a sign of a sludge. And the sludge in turn leads an untidy lifestyle and is unlikely to change it.

Offectful appearance and slope in life

It is not always an external look can be nashely. You can often see a pretty, well-groomed girl, which, as it turns out, it turns out - at home constantly mess. So it happens that for example a guy in worn pants and ugly hairstyle - can be quite economic and maintained at home and at work.

In any case, the external unesperity, or negligent attitude to the purity of the home - is a sign of internal problems. For example, look at the girl's room for 15 years.

Cute bed of an untidy girl. Everything is enabled here: Food, entertainment and rest.

The desktop of the slopes still performs the function of the cabinet for clothes.

Food left on the windowsill, although there is no food there. Maybe this is a black day, or is it preparing a special delicacy?

A guy or a girl of the sludge and how it will affect life in the future

The untidy guy can find ways in life in order to make a good to earn and pry in the pigsty, well, it is in theory. Therefore, a man gets a cacai-no husband, a minider and an ordinary father for his children.

Well, if the sloppy guy is also a loser and did not achieve anything in life, then we see nasty couples. When two monsters find each other and raise their terrible children. In view of the appearance and inner world - an impeccable combination.

While a slug girl may be outwardly beautiful. But it will be a terrible wife and mother. A careless woman cannot fully show love and care. Married serves as an interior object and simply the contents.

Although again, an untidy girl can have a high income and will be able to not steam about the management of the household. For money, it is possible to maintain an appearance, as well as attract and contain hardworking, but such a home husband, or just an alcoholic. Well, this is how lucky.

Female habits that scare men

Causeless behavior

Here are classic examples of causing pity for whom to avoid:

When you say a man that you need you for happiness.

When you constantly repeat "I missed you."

When you manicly check your electronic or voice mail.

Obsessive e-mails and calls (especially to make sure, "he has everything in order").

The authorities of the answer, where it is and what does 24 hours a day, 7 days a week.

Quiet - and not very - anger attacks when he does not devote you to his attention.

Permanent unauthorized desire to hear that he likes your appearance and that he approves your actions.

Your feeling of its inferiority, causing pity, has an exorbitant and absolutely excess pressure on a man. It will constantly feel that it is obliged to fulfill his role for you, to be perfect and / or fit your ideal idea of \u200b\u200bhimself ... And otherwise ... if he does an "mistake," he will not just have to deal with the consequences - he Everything else will also be responsible for your happiness.

Also, if you have a false idea that it is necessary for you to be happy, you lose all your strength. Your well-being will always be in power of another person. You yourself make a powerless, and the powerless woman, my dear, can be any, but not irresistible.

Infinite uncertainty

"It does not complete me?" "Do you still love me?" "You're probably think that she is more beautiful me?" "I'm attractive enough for you?" Infinite uncertainty leads men to rabies and feeds the illusion of your "I" that you have a lot of flaws and you are worse than others. Your insecurity is a bottomless pit that cannot be filled, no matter how much you get assurances in the opposite. This happens because the thought is that you are worse than others, false. This is an illusion. The illusion cannot be fixed, because it originally unreal, unreal.

You can learn not to feed uncertainty, and it is absolutely necessary to do if you want to be irresistible. Either you invest in uncertainty, or in irresistible. I offer a second option.

Here is a hint. If you think that you look thick in a certain dress, perhaps it is. I know it is tough, but such is reality. Not every type of clothing is suitable for any complex. Wear that clothes that looks amazing at you amazing and advantageously emphasizes the merits of your figure. Spend the revision of your wardrobe with a reliable friend and so correct it to the clothes that make you wonder if you look in thick, it was excluded from the list of options.

Here is another important remark. Whatever slim, successful and attractive you have become uncertainty will not go anywhere. Because the inner false thought is not to be corrected by external reality. You can get rid of uncertainty, just allowing yourself to feel it when you really feel it (in other words, do not resist her). But it is impossible to dwell on this feeling. Switch your attention to what is happening around you. For example, listen carefully to the interlocutor or simply put in order your desk. Where you send your attention, and energy flows. You will simply notice uncertainty without taking it to heart and without giving her values, you will find that it will appear much less often. You will also strengthen your ability to be present here and now, completely surrender to life, and this is the key to ensuring the will of its true irresistible. ...

Inability to communicate

Women often make communicative mistakes that undermine their irresistible and because of which men run earlier than you have time to say: "Marriage, children!"

First, most women do not know how to listen to truly. We decide whether we like what a man says, we agree with him or not, we define whether we knew it before. We also listen to to understand whether he heard into our plans (such, for example, how to get a young man, marry, to marry children). This is not a real hearing.

When you really listen, you instantly become attractive. Truly listening to a man, you very powerful give him to feel special, feel your interest. If you have a genuine attraction to each other, it will be more and more to open you. After all, you are so sensitive and so subtly understand who he really is (and not who you are trying to do it). I can not convey how important it is. If you really want to make men crazy, become a skillful listener.

The second communicative error is that women talk about other men in such a manner that awakens in their current partner jealousy or insecurity. Former guys, husbands, other people with whom you meet your wonderful men friends - all these topics are dangerous and uncomfortable if, affecting them, you are not tactful. Tip: If you doubt your abilities, leave other men abroad of your relationship. It is not necessary to paint the details of your romantic and sexual history, as not worth it and praise other men to provoke your partner to the competition. The pictures and the history of the past will pursue it and create a karmic circle based on the jealousy of games that you will exhaust each other.

Thirdly, many women feel the need to speak during or after sex, believing that this is the perfect moment to make him open their true feelings. No, no and NO! Put pressure on the man so that it opened to you during or after sex, it is impossible, especially at the stage of dating. The side effects of such pressure are dissatisfaction, alienation and times are extremely confused.

Cases are as follows: sex is an incredible opportunity to simply give yourself will and be passionate, thirsty and free. You do not need to try through sex to achieve anything or reach a new level in the relationship. Make love means to be freed, open a new and deliver the pleasure of yourself and a close person ...

Sloppy and untidy appearance

So many wonderful women launch themselves, and then surprised why they can not attract a man. If you are added in weight, ceased to care for yourself or think that the training costume is the best your outfit, it's time to see what is really happening. The way you look, affects how you feel. And if you look small, then most likely you feel not so hot, and men catch it your feeling. When the relationship is such that women feel too comfortable, they often cease to try to look attractively. Some men can briefly save sympathy for you (especially if they do not follow the same measurement), but many such a neglect can run the removal reaction. And when you become a pair, relax is very simple. Do not do it in any way. The same applies to personal
Hygiene (teeth, breathing and ... yes, and there too). And although sweaty sex after the gym may be passionate
And fantastic, but irresistible women follow to always be clean and fresh. ...

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Pulling Habit 4: Sloppy and Unds

Let's be honest, okay? The way you look is considerable. Yes, men will love you for caringness and tenderness, behind wit, infectious laughter and your irresistible devil charm. But listen, let them chance to see all your exclusivity - supply it an attractive wrapper!

So many wonderful women launch themselves, and then surprised why they can not attract a man. If you are added in weight, ceased to care for yourself or think that the training costume is the best your outfit, it's time to see what is really happening. The way you look, affects how you feel. And if you look small, then most likely you feel not so hot, and men catch it your feeling. When the relationship is such that women feel too comfortable, they often cease to try to look attractively. Some men can briefly save sympathy for you (especially if they do not follow the same measurement), but many such a neglect can run the removal reaction. And when you become a pair, relax is very simple. Do not do it in any way. The same applies to personal hygiene (teeth, breathing and ... Yes, and therealso). And although sweaty sex after the gym can be passionate and fantastic, but irresistible women follow to always be clean and fresh.

Give yourself a work, take care of yourself every day. Pay attention to how you are wrapped. Personally, I was lucky, because my mother was a wonderful example to imitate in this plan. And although she is infrequently spent on dear decoration clothes, she always looked amazing. She walked over the hour every day and became an adorable, as she called it, refreasing to the father's return from work. Mine Clothes has always been gently mapped, but it always painted with taste, care and skill. Even a cozy bathrobe and slippers combined in color!

This is what is important. No need to dwell on it and seeks an unattainable ideal. But pay your appearance attention and watch yourself.

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Appearance As you know, people form their opinions about you for the first seconds, simply by challenging - even before you open your mouth and say the first word. You organize a business presentation, meeting with the client or partner, speaking or communicate

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Pulling Habit 1: Causes Pity Behavior - Universal Men Scarer When you last heard from the guy: "Do you know what? Yesterday I met such a hot miserable chick! " Ready to argue that never. Because causing pity behavior